How often do you hear girls sayin how much they feelin you then like before you know it....they turn around sayin they wanna justbe friends?

not that often to be honest.......its more like.......i only slept with him cos you went clubbing ........or if you were there i wouldnt of done it...i was lonely and he comforted me......

thats from my experiance anyway

^omg....that shit bout the comforting...is so fuckin true....ugh....i hate scandolous bitches :(

I've recently heard that but this is why I must only pimp now.

^ keep the right hand strong.....*sigh* too much drama....

Heard it once this year. And I don't wanna hear it again....

i hear that shit all the time

I thought this was gonna be a How Much Do You Masturbate topic... Good god.

Anyway, I don't hear it much, cause I try to avoid relationships altogether. I've heard people told it who told me about it though. Nowadays, I hear the "I don't want to end up hurting you" a lot more than anything around my school though.

*Walks in*

Thats only cuz we tryna be nice :)

^^ Be bitches. "Nice" just isn't presentable.

LMAO

Yanno I been feelin you lately,


























BUT I JUST WANT TO BE FREINDS!! lol
jk :p its really nice to see you back

thats not funny...this is a serious topic danijela....

I'm sorry....I'll stop

*Walks in*

Thats only cuz we tryna be nice :)




i believe a female is more of a bitch when she lies, y dont yall just be real and tell the truth, lyin ass bitches n shit

We understand, but sometimes its hard to hurt feelings, its not an easy job. you may be put into the situation wit a chick you aint feelin. We may care for them but not in 'that way'. So we dont want to hurt them because we really do want to remain friends...

hmm.. well personally, i aint give a fuck bout feelings, im heartless

I'm sure....until you fall in love

i'd rather someone be straight up honest with me though.....if you like me like that..then word..if not...then hey ya know there will be others...its cool....but stay real about it...dont switch back and forth

I dont think its a matter of honesty all the time. Sometimes, when we meet guys, the first two weeks they seem great and all that, then we get to know them and we just not into it. That happens ALOT. Theres always a reason, and not exacly the same. It can be that we been feelin someone else till you came, or that we just dont see the vibe, or sometimes if we are vulnorable we will come to different men, once we are stable again we realise what we did and try to fix it....Sometimes not

stupid duck hungry girls :( they change thier mind like 50's mind

That has happened to me I think 3 times in my life.

I can easily tell when a girl doesn't love me....thats why i can easily avoid it

I only let it happen once and once only.

Does it really matter?

^just like your rep...no...it doesnt....shut up.....

What you gettin defensive for, playah? A female label you a "friend"? Shit, it's not like that's a bad thing you condom. S-M-H

I repeat: does it matter?

Please end the "rw ruin a thread by arguin" trend.....stay on topic

^no a female didnt label me a friend...happened to my homie the other day so fall back with that i'm intellectual bullshit


^for truth

I'ma take Schillah's advice.

It Happens.......but it usually happens after me not playin my cards right.......


for instance.....i was talkin to a chick (WAYYYYYY BACK WHEEEENNNNN) and while i was talkin to her...i wasnt really pursuin her.....i was juss talkin...she was cute.....nice personality....she was juss a lil shorty that i could see myself chillin wit.....after that.......some other cat was pursuin her hard....i guess she was into dudes that loved cakin on her or something....i was juss laid back....but this dude....would juss be all over her.......PLUS....this dude was tryin to flex like he was a balla...and was throwin a few dollars here and there........you know what i mean......but the thing was..im the type ya ask for it...ya get it....i dont throw my money out to show my status....that aint me......so a lil after that....when i was gonna try to ask the chick to come wit me to the movies and a lil dinner....she dropped the whole 'friends' thing and said that her and the other dude were on the verge of startin to date........good part is....shit lasted three or four months........and after that she started wantin to talk to me......not havin it...........yall feel me....

^^This Cat is jus like a fukkin remake of me *lol* don't kno if that's good though but anywayz *sighs*

Yo,Ive had this happen to me.Its not the best felling in the world....what if you be feelin them too?Heartbreakin huh?

Girls are pretty fucked up..they got this part of the brain missin which allows them to function properly..

^lmao quote of the year yo

Yeah see...Chicks complain about MEN and their PIMPIN and PLAYER habits...
BUT, it's hard to get serious out here...When u start pacin urself and not makin those "fast" moves....Chicks FLIP on u...

They like u more as a friend and dont wanna lose that...WHEN U WERE TRYIN TO WIFE HER THA WHOLE TIME...
Try to tell her and she tells u again..Tha same thing.."friends"...

When u pimp..Ur not hurt...When u pimp...U actually reach an objective....
When u dont sometimes, u get hurt and WITHOUT wife'in her...
So, tha shit is hard, and I mean damn..We only men, maybe tha chick'll find us..
Cause to tell u tha truth..It's just easier to be pimpin tha many than searchin for tha one...TRUTH..

Most men don't have PIMP and PLAYA mentalities, they just think they do. There's a difference. Most men are wannabes. Take a look round yuh left, and round yuh right. Look forward then back still.

back to the topic..............
i hate that shit.................

ya i agree one hundred percent


once i was with this bitch for like a month and she was liike lets be friends so i was like cool and we atill talked and every thing thenone day she said she like me like a boyfriend but ddnt want one it was fucked up

Naw dog thats never happen to me honestly. I dont like it when bitches so they dont like you and they be tryin to kiss you and shit tho.

Not too often with me...

That nice guy shit is a trap.


How can you be freinds with girl you want if you know she's probably gonna be fucking someone else?


It never works out i just send her packing when it happens.

yeah....i fuckin hate that shit.

AGAIN, the more unavaiable you make yourself, the more the bitch will want you... I do it easily all the time...