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.LadyMarmalade.
04-30-2004, 06:10 PM
Finally! I can ask this


Scenerio
Okay, say that you feelin a girl but she got a man, and ya'll talkin n all that n start to like eachotha more. So she gives in and cheats on her boyfriend/husband with you. Over time she brakes up with him and start going wit you.

Question:
If she cheated on her old man to be with you, how do you know she wont do that to you with another male? Could you trust her, and do you think you'd last, knowing her cheating past?

Now dont tell me shit like I'm special blah blah blah just answer it...

In my opinion, a relationship wont last. If she/hes been cheating on someone else to be with you, thats not being loyal because eventually he'll do that to you and it turns out shit. Trust I know from experience..

ANYWAY your views

BusterHymen
04-30-2004, 06:13 PM
most the time when a male gets into that shit he's ass and pussy blinded so bad he ain't thinking straight to be honest

not like i'd know from personal experience though :)

Ike-One
04-30-2004, 06:33 PM
I wouldn't date a girl who had cheated on previous boyfriends unless her maturity level had remarkably risen. Even so, that would take some time.

So in short. Truth be told, I'd probably be seduced into trusting her, or else, logically speaking, why would I have liked her in the first place? And no, I don't think it would last. At least, not for me. Not during high school. Too young, too immature, too many playas.

Venomous
04-30-2004, 06:37 PM
i dont think she would cheat on her new boyfriend, cause she must like him a lot to break up wit her old boyfriend to be wit him...

Ike-One
04-30-2004, 06:39 PM
^^ Yeah, but the point is, what's to say that she doesn't meet anothe guy that she "really likes" enough to cheat on him too?

.LadyMarmalade.
04-30-2004, 06:40 PM
Exacly, she may have said that wit her ex boy till she met you...

®îÐê-ø®-Ðîë
04-30-2004, 07:03 PM
jus stay wit her if tha pussi iz bomb,

ask her if she gone do tha same 2 u, she will lie anywayz jus 2 keep u happy,

if she leaves u for another man fuck tha next gurl dat com's ur way

:D

Venomous
04-30-2004, 07:14 PM
hmm.. well then that guy is fucked aint he

Wreckin Eyez
04-30-2004, 07:27 PM
Wow, talk about memories. Some shit like this happened to me a while ago. See there was this girl that I had grown to be really good friend with in a short amount of time. Problem is, this girl is my best friends baby's momma and they still going out at the time. I'm over at her house one time and her and her man had just got into an argument on the phone cause he was always cheating on her and wouldn't give her no money to take care of their son. So she basically tells him it's over. We get to talking like 5 minutes after that and I'm telling her that she gon' get back with him, she always does. But I guess I was doing it in a little flirtatious way. Anyway, I'm looking at her telling her this and next thing I know girl pushes me into the wall and starts kissing me. So I start kissing back and everything and yeah. So we talk like this for like a month, never really going out, just messin around. You know. So then one day I go ahead and ask her to be my girl. She says yes, of course. Well next day, I get back from somewhere and her and her sister at my house. Well she starts playing games and runs inside and back out my back door, I guess she wanted me to follow her or something. I said fuck that, I aint got time for games. So I go in and sit down start watching T.V. and her and her sister come in and she's like I need to talk to you. So I go outside and she starts accusing me of fucking this one nasty ass ho. Which I don't put up with. If a girl gon' accuse me of cheating she better have some damn proof. So I broke it off with her and litterally 5 minutes later she was back with her baby's daddy. I heard later on from her sister that she had fucked him earlier that day too, before we had broke up. Well a few months later her man starts pulling the same shit he was pulling before. Of couse she comes to me crying about the shit. Well I tell her everything she wants to hear, that he is fucked up and I would never do anything like that to her. I tell her that I want to get back with her. I go back in the house a little later after we had talked and sat in my room talking to her sister. Well her sister asks me why don't I lay down, so I do. Next thing I know me and her sister going at it, like 10 minutes after I was telling the girl how much I wanted to be back with her. Paybacks a son of a bitch, lol. So I guess what I am trying to say is that you don't know, and you stupid for thinking that the girl won't do it to you. See it didn't surprise me in the slightest. I expected it to happen, I just aint expect it to happen that soon.

Wreckin Eyez
04-30-2004, 07:27 PM
^^Lmao... Didn't realize it was that long, my bad.

®îÐê-ø®-Ðîë
04-30-2004, 07:34 PM
Damn yo, woman *Sighz*

that waz interestin read tho lol

Elldawg
04-30-2004, 09:35 PM
well.... if i got her to cheat with her man.... then i;d fuck her then forget her... cuz shes not worth havin

F02936GF12
04-30-2004, 10:10 PM
I feel like the whole world owes me so if she cheat on her man for me fuck him oh well his shit must not be scrong enuff to keep da braud. I wouldnt take her serious tho, but I would at least keep her until I saw signs of her wantin someone else, or I grew bored whichever comes 1st.

THE TRUTH
04-30-2004, 11:11 PM
Real men don't get with fake women! That's the only maxim you need to learn.

A fake woman is a person who claims she has a boyfriend, but she's creepin on him. A fake woman is a person who says she enjoys the company of the man she's creeping with over that of her boyfriend. Any woman who tries to convince you that she wouldnt do to you, what she did with her boyfriend, is not only hypocritical but too ignorant to see an inch in front of her.

A man would be even more ignorant if he was to believe that he is of a different breed from the one that came before him -- that's why I suggest he's not a real man.

all things said...if I approach a female that has a man, it's because: (1) I don't respect the boyfriend; and (2) I dont respect the female -- only want her for the crotch. I don't flex in that manner, though.

TRUTH

F02936GF12
04-30-2004, 11:12 PM
^I coulda sworn that used to be ya swag, maybe its just suttin I saw and got that impression *shrugs*

THE TRUTH
04-30-2004, 11:16 PM
What you know bout my swagger?

For you to make that assumption, you must base it on something. I dont cross people's territory, fella, I listen to women speak of their men's dilemnas. I listen. Didn't I tell you to do that some time ago? You think I was talking just to talk? Unlikely.

F02936GF12
04-30-2004, 11:18 PM
Woah...where all this hostility coming from? I made a simple comment that I thought you used to like fuck em and leave em, if I was wrong damn I was wrong but all that was unecissary.

THE TRUTH
04-30-2004, 11:20 PM
Actually fuckin em and leavin em is something totally different. There was no hostility in my comments actually. And I've long been off that situation. You got the impression that I treat women like shit? Hmmmm. Don't they all get that impression? don't they all?

F02936GF12
04-30-2004, 11:22 PM
I didnt say treat em like shit. And no hostility, ok. It appeared that way but w/e

THE TRUTH
04-30-2004, 11:25 PM
Peepz impressions are unimportant to me anyway. Females think I treat females like shit; males think I treat females like shit. Whatever to it all. lmao

I do me. They do them. One of us looks more 'favorable' then the other. Guess who. lmao

Back to the answers to Queeny's questions.

Schillah
04-30-2004, 11:29 PM
good question...2 be honest...i wouldnt mess around a chick that cheats on her man

THE TRUTH
04-30-2004, 11:31 PM
go back to the deli (lol)

sup, playah?

~Damien~
04-30-2004, 11:32 PM
Question:
If she cheated on her old man to be with you, how do you know she wont do that to you with another male? Could you trust her, and do you think you'd last, knowing her cheating past?


Based on experience, I kinda knew she wouldn't cheat on me. The marriage she had with dukes was done for complicated reasons. She and I grew fond of each other and shit went down. I knew she wouldn't cheat on me if we had a relationship but I encouraged her to stay with ole' boy anyway. If we met up in the future where she isn't married then it's whatever..

Schillah
04-30-2004, 11:36 PM
go back to the deli (lol)

sup, playah?

lol hush up...im bein real tho lol

Canari Millz
04-30-2004, 11:55 PM
I agree wit venonous

Doc~Ill
05-01-2004, 02:39 PM
Aiight see I been in this similar situation before.This dude named uh Ryan Trammel(one of my boys also) was datin this chik(my girl now) and uh I got a holt of her fone#,so you kno.....we talkin and she invites me over to her house with Ryan.Well,Ryan didnt show up and I did.And you know I gave into temptation and fucked her.Well,later on she tell dude its over and that I took her virginity instead of him.It was a fucked up scenerio but,I think that it can last,but the ratio is like fuckin 1/1000000.Theres very little chance that it'll last,but if yous a lucky motherfucker then hell,you got a shot.If not,you shit outta luck.~1~

F02936GF12
05-01-2004, 02:41 PM
^You a fucked up dude fuh dat shit...unless yall wasnt real real tight boys, and she was plain vicious, but still thats some grimey shit.

Wreckin Eyez
05-01-2004, 03:41 PM
^^Lol, obviously aint read my story.

F02936GF12
05-01-2004, 03:43 PM
^Damn right dat shit remind me of da Bible

Wreckin Eyez
05-01-2004, 03:46 PM
^^Lmao, read it kid. Like Ride Or Die said, it's an interesting read. Plus what else you got to do in the next 5 minutes. Won't take that long to read it.

F02936GF12
05-01-2004, 03:55 PM
^I gotta leave lol I'll peep it later

Don_C
05-01-2004, 05:12 PM
????? Good Kwestion

COVERT
05-06-2004, 08:59 PM
if a girls gonna cheat, shes gonna cheat.....she does it once she'll do it again......and were all the same shit if im with a girl and someone better comes along, then i'll fuck it, personally, from experiance.....noone gives a fuck these days.....no relationships gonna last, so jus have fun while you can

skitz
05-07-2004, 12:22 AM
i think for me it'd have to depend on the girl..............................................
ya know....... like how ong you've known the girl and shit............................
cuz what if you was real cool wit the girl before she got wit the faggot..........
and you've liked her for a while........ and she liked you for a while.................
and she just got wit the dude cuz neither of you decided to make a move.......
then one day you 2 confess your guys's obsessions wit eachother..................
and she cheats on the asshole wit you a few times..... then she leaves him......
and y'all 2 get together..... somethin botha ya'll wanted for a long ass time.......
and then y'all finally do get her.............. you couldn't trust her then?..............
i think i could until she proved to me that i aint know a bitch like i thought i did...

Chauze
05-07-2004, 02:24 PM
Basically...If ur head is screwed on tight, then u wont let that ignorant shit happen to u...
I'd be cautious from tha beggining of when she cheats...
But simply because I'm not GOD and dont KNOW EVERYTHING..I'd let tha relationship roll on just to see...NOT too involved but not too away...
Only because u'll never know...If I dont trust her, I ask, and act accordingly....

It's girls like that..Who would CHEAT b4 they break up wit tha dude, or not tell tha dude, that get lil' respect...UNLESS she just a twerk-butt and I'm in it for sum azz..Thats different...

skitz
05-07-2004, 08:21 PM
yeah........... for real man................

Cra-Z
05-10-2004, 10:21 AM
I'm with Icon, stay away from them ones...

Status.Quo
05-10-2004, 11:36 AM
Finally! I can ask this


Scenerio
Okay, say that you feelin a girl but she got a man, and ya'll talkin n all that n start to like eachotha more. So she gives in and cheats on her boyfriend/husband with you. Over time she brakes up with him and start going wit you.

Question:
If she cheated on her old man to be with you, how do you know she wont do that to you with another male? Could you trust her, and do you think you'd last, knowing her cheating past?

Now dont tell me shit like I'm special blah blah blah just answer it...

In my opinion, a relationship wont last. If she/hes been cheating on someone else to be with you, thats not being loyal because eventually he'll do that to you and it turns out shit. Trust I know from experience..

ANYWAY your views
My Opinion...
If She Cheated To Be w. Me - Den Im Better Den What She Had, but..
If She Cheat To Find Better Den Me...No Love Loss
If Loves Involved - I'll Never Forget, but Forgive & Decide To Be Freinds, or W/e...
It All Depends On My Feelings - Sometimes I Wouldnt Give A Fuck..
If She Cheat & I Find Out & She Dont Kno I Kno....
Den I Would Get GRIMIER Den Usuall !!

Hussell Crowe
05-12-2008, 05:40 PM
WOMEN CANT BE TRUSTED.....

THATS WHY THE LIARS HAVE VAGINA's, AND THE MOTHERFUCKIN LEGENDS HAVE PENIS's...

UnLESS YOU MEDICALLY ALTER THAT... BESIDES...

WOMEN JUST SLOW YOU DOWN...

AKthaKID
05-14-2008, 03:13 PM
from expierence, hell yea that shit gonna happen. real talk, i only know a few relationships that lasted, n even in those relationships, cheatin still occured. thats y u gotta keep it single now-a-days.

Slim-Fast
05-18-2008, 07:25 PM
I realy wouldnt care if I found out I'd act like I didnt kno and then I'd wait 'til she wanted sex and fuck her then leave with all her shit in the morning then roll with her hottest friend