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~Salvation~
05-08-2004, 03:20 AM
try to get in touch with the emmotional side of yourselves...
how does it make you feel to break up with a girl and have her start crying in front of you??

F02936GF12
05-08-2004, 03:56 AM
Never had it in front of me but when I was much younger over the phone smh. I was just like "shit...*sighs*" lol i got mad cuz she started crying.

~Salvation~
05-08-2004, 04:05 AM
ha ha, how bout this, my ex fucked me then dumped my ass....then felt nuttin when I cried...bitch ass fucka anyways.
That's aiight, he sucked in bed.

FreeFlow
05-08-2004, 08:40 AM
I dunno it's trip'

I mean I don't do the whole 'friends' shit, cos it's just not coo' ya know,
So when I break up with a girl and she crys, I just think. shit I'm lucky I broke it off, cos she's way too clingy.

FiRON
05-08-2004, 04:25 PM
i slap her...

but thats just me


can i get ur number?

~Salvation~
05-10-2004, 12:49 AM
1-800-how bout noooooo ya crazy dutch bitch-2358

So anyways FreeFlow, you don't like when girls get clingy then huh?
lol, I'm startin to get that way with guys......

~Damien~
05-10-2004, 12:55 AM
My earlier years of high school was like that. I would break off whatever we had when I felt the female was getting too attached and she would cry. Alot of the time it was infront of me. Back then I felt nothing but that was due to my insensitivity to anybody's emotions. After graduation, I relaxed a bit. At this moment and time I would definitely feel a tad bit remorseful. It may not happen, though, simply because my mind is on graduating college instead of females...

Cra-Z
05-10-2004, 10:12 AM
It really depends on the chick, I only break up with people if they acting super stupid so I probably wouldn't care...

~Salvation~
05-11-2004, 12:44 AM
I can understand what ya mean though, I don't really like people gettin all clingy on me and havin my own b/f stalk me in my own relationship is just freaky as hell. I only ever made 2 guys cry when I broke up with them, but they were femine as hell **wonders if she's really gay......smacks herself for the thought, and continues**...and they both stalked the fuck out of me for the longest time, til I threated to kill one and the other was just stupid and left for the military!! YAY FOR THE MILITARY TAKIN PEOPLE FAR FAR AWAY!!!

But I'm talkin bout if you were actually in love with the girl or something.....

Status.Quo
05-11-2004, 09:28 AM
Never, I Just Chalked It Up & Moved On ...
Had Heartbreaks I Mean, but Never EMOTIONAL Ones ..I Guess Deep Inside
I Really Never Cared
It Dont Want It To Happen ..but I Guess In Life - Da Best Medecine Is To Cry !!

~Damien~
05-11-2004, 10:41 AM
....the other was just stupid and left for the military!! YAY FOR THE MILITARY TAKIN PEOPLE FAR FAR AWAY!!!
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Hmm...The problem now is that he will be coming back well versed in the operation of multiple handheld weapons as well as physical hand-to-hand combat. He also has a higher threshold of tolerance from his training..

~Salvation~
05-11-2004, 05:02 PM
not really, he went to bootcamp and still came back a bitch.
And I met him online and he came out here to see me a few times, so you can't really call it a relationship. But he still cried when I broke up with him...and that was after bootcamp. So...yea he's still a bitch.
All good though, I'd like, kick him or something if he came back, I may be a lil shit, but grrr, I'd kick his butt!! lol
yea I know I'm a dork.

~Damien~
05-12-2004, 01:31 AM
Well in that case, he's a bitch..

~SMIRK~

~Salvation~
05-13-2004, 03:05 AM
awww, that was sweet!! thanks!! lol, he is a bitch though!! I'll kick him, grrr....lol

Mischieveus
05-13-2004, 06:15 AM
I broke up with this one girl on a Friday night over the internet 'cause I had planned to for awhile, you know. . . And she started calling me all these names and shit. I didn't say anything to her. So the following Saturday I took this girl she really hates to the mall and ran into her. She ran out the store crying with her best friend chasing behind her. I laughed because she said all that shit and now she's crying.. I felt bad and caught up with her later.. We're cool now.

gangstalita
05-13-2004, 01:25 PM
awww..poor thing..i did that once before where i had broken up with this guy n i ended up goin out with his life-long enemy n ended up gettin caught by a friend of my ex's who ran back n told like a lil bitch..but he called me later that night n we talked n reached a mutual agreement..
breakin up over the internet tho is harsh..

~Salvation~
05-14-2004, 01:08 AM
I broke up with this guy over the net once and he flipped the fuck out on me, he started crying and was threatening to kill himself and kept tellin me "I love you I wanna marry you, I love you I wanna marry you" repeaditly for like 10 minutes straight. Then he called me crying and his sister got on the phone and was like "I dunno what to say he handed me the phone, he's locked himself in his room and he's cryin and freakin out and screaming"
I'm like........damn an I only dated this guy for like 3 weeks, I'm glad I ended that shit when I did. Holy hell he was psycho.
And don't worry Amy I'll never break up with you over the net!!!

gangstalita
05-14-2004, 01:41 PM
thanks girl..but you better never break up with me period..lol..ey kar,i finally told you know who off over the internet n he kept tellin me he has no reason to keep living,that all good things in his life are leaving him behind..what a wack job..

THE TRUTH
05-14-2004, 06:55 PM
I think this question has nothing to do with a male getting in touch with their emotional sides.

Instead, it has more to do with if the male is really sure that breaking up with the female is what he wants to do. If he is totally sure, then a female crying won't affect him in a manner which is likely to make him change his mind; but he may try to console her for sincerity's sake. I've had women cry in front of me because I hit an emotional within them. The circumstance has never arisen in regards "breaking up" because I don't do "titles". Normally when my relationships with females end, it is simply by allowing conversation to drift away into nothingness. That is normally the simpler way to resolve the issue.

In the present, there is a female I know is into me deep. She knows she can't get me; and her emotions switch dramatically between individual times when I speak to her. One day she feels daring and tells me what she wants; and another day she expresses hatred toward me. It's the mix of emotions she can't deal with and she cries because of it. I've spent much time passing her tissues. It's actually a sad circumstance, but what can I do?

I know this was off topic, but I think it touches on similar territory.

~Salvation~
05-17-2004, 02:13 AM
naw it's cool, it was very similar!! And in a way it does involve the emmotional aspect of things...for me seeing someone cry, basically tells me I had some big effect on their life and they don't want me out of it, in the same sence I was in it. But to break up with a girl and watch her cry then tell her to shut up or knock it off or something like that, I find completely heartless....
On another Note........WOOOOOO GO AMY!! wow, I love you even more and you have to tell me what you said, I have never really seen you get all tough on someone, damn girl it'll prolly turn me on...lmao!! You know I aint lettin ya go!!
ohhhhh, you gotta see the car I'm thinkin bout gettin!! and I got new pics this weekend for ya to see!! I showed them to Alex...he went nuts, wow he's so sexy!! lol

Ramses II
05-17-2004, 03:09 AM
all depends on why i broke up with her... if its on good terms then i'll console her and tell her its not her its me even know it'll probably lead to us getting back together after that great make up sex... if its on bad terms i'd tell her "fuck ya ya maw ain't raise u right" then carry on about my business

SPITZ
05-19-2004, 08:38 PM
That shit be pissin' me off when it happens. Simply because I ain't built like that. Don't really deal with emotionz and all that feminine type shit. Don't mean to make felinez cry but itz part of the game, feel me?


SPITZ