do you think that a 14 year old girl and 20 year old guy is a decent couple...age wise? Now how bout a 16 year old girl and 21 year ol dguy...decent?...what you do think bout the age differences in couples?...holla at me :kiss:

I don't think it's acceptable. It shouldn't be that way. I mean, why go for a way younger guy or a way younger girl when you can find someone in the same age range that's not against the law? Oh well. R. Kelly is my uncle so I just need to stop talkin' bout myself :rolleyes:

The way I see it...there's always gonna be an issue even if both minds are on the same level, people talk. Especially when both are under 18. 14 and 20 to me is disgusting lol I aint even gonna lie. 16 and 21 is a lil better because 16 is a somewhat transitional period and 21 the same. Not to mention 16 is age of consent. Personally though...I would date a girl no more than 3 years younger, or 7 years older. Man all this age shit is gettin 2 me I gotta make another thread.

Quiz got a point. The period what the 16 year old is going thru is transitional and so there are alot of issues that may need to be addressed. For that reason, I cannot say that it's alright for a 16 year old to date a 20 or 21 year old. Also, Caramella has a point. Why go for someone that much younger when you can easily find someone who is in your age range who would be a more suitable partner? My personal preference would be to have 18 as the cut-off. I know alot of mature 18 and 19 year olds and that's probably the youngest I'd go..

I just had a very intresting conversation with a friend regarding something goin on wit me and another female who prefers older men. She explained that

Those who look for older people: Are prolly lookin for experience. Want something long lasting. And they figure that older ppl have that 'long lasting' mentality since they're older they're done running around and looking.

But those who go for younger people: Are prolly at that period in their life where A.They feel the need to prove they still have youth in them and in turn look for someone younger, healthier maybe? B.Were also lookin for older ppl but realized these long lasting shits dont last always and just missed all their fun. C. Want to the mold the mind of the young.

I'm kinda like C haha.

I know alot of niggaz like the C-Type. I used to be like that, but I got over it when I met this older chick bacc in high school. Since then, I find it difficult to look to younger females unless they have the equivalent mentality level of the very same female I was with all those years ago..

18 and up and you're looking for someone under 16?You're asking for trouble.

I like them young to be honest but not jail-bait young.I'm 21 a 16-year old broad is pretty young and that's as far as i'd go.When i hit 23 i won't even look at broads under 18.

But i'll probably always be into bitches in their Late teens-Early 20's no matter my age ..i don't like old bicthes ..they're like used or some shit.

When I was 14 my man was 20. I have no problem with age diference aslong as its not DRASTIC

Umm..That was actually drastic. A 6 year difference?!?! That's not kosher. The major issue I have with this is that my lil' cousins are all 15 and 16. I can't see myself in a relationship with one of their friends..

Where have I heard that example before..lol

That wasnt drastic in my case. I guess people have different opinions *Shrugs*

Many people have different opinions on evil but it still doesn't change what it is..

~SMIRK~

^^good point right there...
Im 19 and I was dating at one point a 16 year old...
BUT I figured out that by me dating her I took her away from...
A. her high school life/atmosphere
B. her friends
C. I was setting her up for a huge heart break

because I knew that it wasnt gonna last forever and if I kept at it with her she would've grown very attatched to me while losing most of the greatness of high school life and losing her friends along the way...plus after a while it became apparent that her maturity wasnt quite up to mine yet...but none the less we are still friends and she is a dope girl...who knows we still may get together...but it wont be til she is a little more mature and probably most likely out of high school...but yeah 21-14 is gross...I have a little sister that is 17 and not until I met that girl did I even think about dating girls her around her age...but I think within 3 years is cool...anyways Ive spoke enough on this..lol...

^^^Don't ever put yourself in a woman's shoes.You'll get burnt every time .

Trust me she don't give a fuck about how that relationship impacted you.

Ok well considering my grandmother is married to a guy that is 3 years younger than my mother and I've dated younger girls before. I'm gonna have to say age aint nothin but a number, within reason. Like you can't be 19 and dating an 11 year old, that's just wrong. Not because of the age difference but because of the age of the person itself. Like lets say, 19 and 11 is wrong, while 16 and 24 isn't as wrong. A 16 year old is old enough to know what they're doing in my opinion. It also has alot to do with maturity levels. Like if you a 23 year old female dating a 15 year old male with the mental capacity of a 10 year old. I look at that as wrong.

i feel ya...

My Opinion - It Depends, cus It Usually Ends Up As A Battle of Wits (Mentalities)
We All Kno (Which Been Scientifically Proven) Females Mature faster then Males, so
A Older Nigga Fuckin' w. A Younger Female (Preferbly 17-20) Is Acceptable In Both Genders
Especially w. Males
Females Dont Usely Fuck w. The Same Age Partners & We All Kno That - Females Look For A Higher Maturity
A Male w. Experience w. Conversation To Keep They Attention (Thats Important To Them)
So, w. The Age Acceptance - I Would Say 14 & 20 Is Not
16 & 21 Is Not
But 17 Is (Allowin 3 Years & Above [Comfortable Above]) Good w. Females w. Older Males
Males - Well, We Gotta Be Safe, cus of The Whole Rape Thing (Malestation, Etc)

i look at it like this. why mess wit girls that young foreals they act like lttle girls playin in the sand. and when you get caught thats your ass not hers. so your fuckd right there then thats when you cry and regret it. inless your rolemodel is r.kelly lol

^^^^True.

Just today some bicth basically ratted on me cuz i get went into that class and hour late me and everybody around me was like wtf are those bicthes(her and the teacher)doing?

My boy grabbed me cuz he knew i was about to go off.

Word man, i felt like slapping all them yung bitches.That shit ain't cute,i'mm a grown man that shit was embarrasing "Please leave the class" I was like "WHAT FO?" the yung bicth was like "Cuz it's 12" and looking at me like i'm nuts....

...oh lawd let me just dump that class and never run into those bicthes again.

Fuck-a-hoe.

I say it's fuckin' wrong if the male/female is more than 5 years older than their partner. If ya'll have a problem with a 16 & 21 yr old .. Take a shot at this girl at my sisters school .. she is 15 and dating some guy who is 36. This guy looks like he could be her dad. Really, it's sick'ning.

[[.P.s.]] I know I ain't 18 but .. I turn 18 in a couple weeks .. So I count. :)

i look at it like this. why mess wit girls that young foreals they act like lttle girls playin in the sand. and when you get caught thats your ass not hers. so your fuckd right there then thats when you cry and regret it. inless your rolemodel is r.kelly lol

^^Not all of them. I'm not saying go out and fuck a preteen. I'm saying if they mature in both body and mind I don't see much wrong with it, to an extent. Like a 30 year old dating a 16 year old, I look at that as wrong. A 19 year old dating a 15 year old, not exactly right, but not exactly wrong either.

I say it's fuckin' wrong if the male/female is more than 5 years older than their partner. If ya'll have a problem with a 16 & 21 yr old .. Take a shot at this girl at my sisters school .. she is 15 and dating some guy who is 36. This guy looks like he could be her dad. Really, it's sick'ning.


^^I know a few girls that do that shit. Yes it is wrong for a 30 year old to be dating a teenage but aint nothing wrong with a 21 year old dating a 16 year old.

I honestly don't think there should be an age bracket that you must look to. But there should be, an accurate measure of how to decipher if you should be with a person. It comes down to personality; and sexual experience, and various other things. That being said...in your quest to decipher it's only obvious that a 21 and a 16 year old aren't the same in character, experience, and much other things. But there may be an exceptional 16 year old who has the ability and maturity level to keep up with a 21 year old. It depends on that persons as individuals and then how they come together in unison. I do not condone large age differences with couples or sexual partners. 14 year olds should stay with kids for the simple fact that to do otherwise, disturbs and putting growin at an imbalance. Older women normally find me attractive and I've been with a female 6-7 years older than me. But that didn't work out, for some reasons mentioned above.

What matters is that you look toward your morals and decide; and accept the consequences if you have no morals.

WUNZUNO

lol..aint that against the law or some ish? anyways...i think that's still kinda messed up...but not as messed up as beyonce's and jigga's age difference (wow..jigga seriously IS big pimpin')

wuhn,
harsh

depends ... minors (under 18) USUALLY 1-2 year difference, maybe 3 if maturity levels for the younger one is up (this only applies to like 17-14 relations) but if ur over 18, then u can go down NO MORE than 1 year (i messed w/18 yr old girls in high school cuz i didnt turn 18 'til the summer after my senior year so...) but above, i'd say 3-5 years, & as u get older the brackets get larger (30-40, late 20's-early/mid-40s)

messin' wit minors is bad tho fellas, so if u 18 & she's 16 ... forget it (unless she gives u head in which case u can't say rape since, within reasonable limits, u can't force someone to suck ur dick) ... but better safe than sorry

hope that made sense i have no clue what i just said

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Fuck no it's not acceptable.
If i were 18 or up i wouldnt touch a 16 year old gurl with a stolen dick.
I don't need to go to jail dogg.
But whatever floats your boat.

lmao, u all sayin a 5 or 6 year difference is disgusting? my ex-misses went for a 25 year old when she was 17, she is 17 but still, and on some jerry springer shit, i know a chik thats 17, and is with a guy in his 40's or 50's, and is even pregnant to him. I aint sayin i condone that, just 5 and 6 year differences dont seem so bad after seein that, personally i'm against all of u, i dont think anyone has the right to decide another persons partner, it might be against the law, but shit, since when has the law looked out for people??? now, personally, i would only be with chiks a couple of years younger, but, i dont really care bout other people, if both the people in the relationship are happy, whats it matter, and if she regrets it later, she'll have learnt a big lesson

^Good point, and 17 is awfully close to 18 considering time flies

depends ... minors (under 18) USUALLY 1-2 year difference, maybe 3 if maturity levels for the younger one is up (this only applies to like 17-14 relations) but if ur over 18, then u can go down NO MORE than 1 year (i messed w/18 yr old girls in high school cuz i didnt turn 18 'til the summer after my senior year so...) but above, i'd say 3-5 years, & as u get older the brackets get larger (30-40, late 20's-early/mid-40s)

messin' wit minors is bad tho fellas, so if u 18 & she's 16 ... forget it (unless she gives u head in which case u can't say rape since, within reasonable limits, u can't force someone to suck ur dick) ... but better safe than sorry

hope that made sense i have no clue what i just said

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^^^^^^^^^^^^
That's in my opinion how ya'll should look at it. My lil' sister is 17 and for like a year she had been dating this chump who was 29. No one knew about it until one night I saw them out at McDonalds. I knew this motha fucka was old, I could tell. I asked her who he was and she told me it was her boyfriend and that they had been datin for like a year. I fuckin lost it. I threw the guy over the little divider onto another table and just beat the shit out of him. Hit with trays and big macs and everything. That shits disgusting. I spent 6 months in jail for it, but it was well worth it. So if ur a 29 year old man and watch the fuck out, cause ur cradle robbin ass is bound to get beat.

yeah i feel ya there, if it was my sister it would be a different story, or any relative for that matter

not just no but hell no. iseen worse though. i wish i would see my 14 year old sister wit some 20 year old knucle head for real i would beat tha brakes off that mutha fucka. Why? because i know how i was when i was that age. for real that shit is some kind of wrong. if a mutha fucka that old needs someone that much younger than him he got problems anyway.





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I know a girl 16 with a guy 21, I mean if it's true love then it's cool but not if the shit like peer pressure you know. Like my girl is almost 2 years older then me.

im 19 and i was seein this girl who was 15, i dont think age really matters as long as u both got feelins for each other, me and this girl didnt have sex tho.. so thats probably why i feel this way, i dont see that age shud be an issue as long as u aint havin sex with an underage girl, now i do think that a 15 year old is old enough to know the risks of havin sex, but i still wouldnt have sex with her. But i dont see why i cant be in a relationship with her.....

I"m definately hearing what everybody's saying about their cousins, I got cousins that same age too. However, I know when I was 16 I thought that I knew what I was doing. I think it's tough because the only people really capiable of knowing what's actually going on are those involved. I'm not gonna claim to know about something that I don't have a hand in. And while this all sounds well and good; while I can try to act objective -


Bottom Line: If you're 21 and seeing my cousin, you'll be seeing me.

I THINK IT SHOWS LOW SELF ESTEEM.

Im 21 and my girl is 17 seriously everything has been pretty phat between me and her and we met when she was 16 and i was 20 i can tell ya one thing she's matured a shitload since the first time i met her... for a guy its a lotta work tryin to date someone younger u just gotta have some patience i guess b/c in the beginning they are annoying as can be but then ur maturity starts to rub off on them or vise versa u become immature haha

what the hell. ur 14 and hes 20. that aint drastic.. woman ur wak..

age is a thing to me.. i go clubs and see 18 yr old whinny with full grown men of 30.. and they wonder why rape is on the high. young girls love teasing n leadin on guys.
i aint supporting them but some people jus gota understand


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no way

14 yrs old?? c'mon

6 years difference when ur older ain't much but at 14 and 20 yeah thats whaked
but this guy obviously likes em young and fresh

14 years old no way

16 not to bad really it depends on the people but most of the time the age difference dont work mainly coz 16 ys to inmature

A lot of lasses like to date older lads but not for a relationship status but to be able to out to the clubs and shit...anyway

You see, 14 and 20 is purely disgusting in the way that we see but to the actual ppl in the situation just see it as 'well he's just a lil older than me'. 14 is considered too young even for a relationship with a 14 year old cuz to me its way too immature. You know that the oldest out of the 2 is going to be more sexually active than the youngest..its this what most rape cases are made from cuz 20 year old sees the 14 year old as the same age as him/her. I would never have a relationship with any girl ever,i don't like that 'ooooh i love you crap'. Its too overrated these days. Im the one nigt stand kind of person,no strings eh..eh..eh,y'all lovin that.

When I was younger I used to think it was completely wrong and just gross for a guy to date a girl alot younger than him....Like 14-30 persay....Untill it was me.....It's completely different when it's you and not something you hear about on the news....From that expirence,I've learned not to judge.

That shit is not good. I got a 17 year old sister and if a nigga like 21 22 try to talk to her i might catch a case

You niggers love upping old ass threads.

i got a sixteen year old sister, i would have the same problem cuz then you feel like"what the fuck is this nigga doin', he ain't slick." i can't date young braods(this coming from an 18 year old) but all my girlfriends have been 20 to 23 since 16.

You niggers love upping old ass threads.

Yes i am a nigger

16 ok bout 14 to young

i cant stand ynger girls aways older for me

but as for is it wrong??

that is up for the parents to decide, and if hes 25 and shes 16 the guy should have enough sence not to but if they over 18 dont really matter to me

do you think that a 14 year old girl and 20 year old guy is a decent couple...age wise? Now how bout a 16 year old girl and 21 year ol dguy...decent?...what you do think bout the age differences in couples?...holla at me :kiss:
To tell you the truth i don't see nothing wrong with neither one. :o

if i was the 14 year old id do it

but if i was the 21 year old
isnt that illegal

dats sicc 14 and 20 nahhhhhhhhh!!!!!!11
my girlfriends 17 and im 20 and my peeps still claimin shes to young for my ass
nah if i found out my 15 year old sister was goin out wit a 20 yr old i leave boot marks on his ribs!!!!!!!!!!!!

no folks 14 year old to young for relationship aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!