View Full Version : Sympin' is bad for you:Why being a "Nice Guy"don't work.
Tha Realnezz 06-11-2004, 03:17 AM Cuz..mufucka..you ain't nice. What guy actually respects broads like that or put them on a pedestal for real.
None of us.
Stop lying ya'll.
All that sympin'"oohh gurl,i love yo' ass" shit is making ugly ass broads and skanks think they shit.
The number one reason girls don't eat that shit up is cuz they ain't stupid and it makes you look like a pussy.
I mean really does that sweetie pie ever work for you at first?
Hell naaaaaahh..it works once you know the bicth or once she already like you.
That's why the go for the jerk or the bad-boy cuz that's what guys really act like.
Before one of you quiet,sensitive,soft-spoken boys get up in hurr with that "All gurls ain't the same" bullshit.
Think about it.
Do you really,deep-down-inside think any broad deserves that treatment?
Try it once..i dare you.
Stop putting them on a pedestal and being cute with it.
IllAssasin 06-11-2004, 05:01 AM damn chief you just keep hittin it on the nail.
never simp a bitch let a bitch simp you aint no I Love You i need you shit should ever come out ya mouth ever. fuck a bitch less she got yo last name or yo seed then fuck em.
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~Damien~ 06-11-2004, 09:45 AM ~SMIRK~
It's statements like this that amuse me. It's obvious that life experience is the only true pedagogue. That being the case, one's perspective can only proffer whatever to what that person has witnessed. If your whole ideals are based on a mere sect of individuals, I am sorry to inform you that you are being slightly myopic..
There are some of us who don't bitch up for a female but we don't disrespect 'em either. I'm done doing that shit. I was in the same shoes you're in now, but I've had certain experieces mold my actions. For that, I cannot agree with your afore mentioned declaration..
THE TRUTH 06-11-2004, 10:12 AM ...and neither is it imperative that you act unlike yourself. To be able to categorize a gender of individuals in the way you did, lends no credence to the fact, that not all women ARE the same. I hear almost a repeat of the argument you present from many women when they say: "All men are the same, dogz and the like". If women were correct in making this statement and believed that the statement was true, they could not argue about being objectified by men and used for their vagina. Nor should they look for the 'right' man, but get anybody who they find attractive, as the male personality, behind any face, is identical.
While I would concede that women, in general, have a tendency to choose men who display the 'treat women like shit' qualities you highlight; you have to look at the situation with more equitable eyes. Women are not attracted to bad behavior; they're attracted to what the bad behavior represents but doesn't say. They're attracted to the maturity that seems to exist behind the veneer of that bad behavior. They're attracted to the strength, the solidarity, the 'do what you're gonna do whatever' mentality that bad behavior is demonstrative of -- and other things. That being said, it is only obvious that you can be the nice guy and portray those exact same qualities.
When I say 'nice guy', I don't mean 'pussy' or 'compliment giver' or 'weak bastard'; because then, those qualities women are generally attracted to, won't be there. When I say 'nice guy', I mean a man who respects those around him who deserve respect, for he understands that in respecting others, he'll receive respect of equal proportion. He understands that a vagina is not just pleasure, it means too much to be disrespected. He knows the woman he respects deserves that respect, because a woman like her, made him and every other man that walks the earth. Todo el Mundo.
I dont condone treating women in a manner far-beyond what they deserve. But when you honestly place yourself with a woman who is willing to respect-you-back, there should be nothing that stands in your way of treating her like the Q-U-E-E-N that she is. And by doing so, you silently demand the same treatment from her. And if she isn't willing to give it; then you dont deal with that woman. It's that simple. It's nothing to do with being a 'stupid motherfuckah', and everything to do with understanding the 'woman' and not just guessing.
Take some time out to understand. They're not all the same; or you'd click with all of them -- or won't click for that matter. About your statements: lo siento pero no es aceptable a mi.
(signed)
THE TRUTH
F02936GF12 06-11-2004, 12:04 PM *british accent* IM A PIMP
Wreckin Eyez 06-11-2004, 01:47 PM Smh... And you sit in your room and wonder why yo ass never gets no pussy when I'm never alone. For real, that bad boy shit has grown old to women. They liked the shit back in the 90's but now they want a real man. I aint talking about saying "I love you" and shit like that. You don't say that shit unless you mean it. But you do need to respect your women, otherwise you gon' keep going through girls and end up like my mom's ex. 40 years old and alone. Children need to grow they ass up and realize real women don't want a "bad boy" they want a real man.
Tha Realnezz 06-11-2004, 01:52 PM ^^Read my other post.
Damien:I'm talking about the guys that do this.
Tha Realnezz 06-11-2004, 01:59 PM I said that's why the almost always go for the bad guys cuz that's those types of men don't really care too much about pleasing them.
Where did i say to treat women like shit?lol,that'll won't work either unless you want mindless hoe-bags.
In my other post i break down why pretty boys and other types of gimmicks and tricks are a weak man's guide to getting sex and are also basically sympin.
Yo and trust me IF they had a choice between a pussy and a dogg..they'll keep playing with the pussy and go get fucked by the dog on the low,beleive me.
None of them will admit that.
They are all different and want different things in men? None of them really want a "Nice Guy",man.
Read my other post,people.
Tha Realnezz 06-11-2004, 01:59 PM ^^Read my other post.
Damien:I'm talking about the guys that do this.
Wreckin Eyez 06-11-2004, 02:19 PM I aint saying you said treat your women like shit. I also aint saying be a pussy. Treating your women with respect isn't being a pussy. I'm not talking about doing anything and everything for them and jump at their command, all I'm saying is treat them with respect. Yeah a dog'll get his bone, but in about 5 years that dog'll be laid to rest. Then what's a dog to do. Like I said, women don't want a dog they want a man. These little girlies might want a man who treats them like shit, but a real women don't.
Tha Realnezz 06-11-2004, 02:45 PM "5 years later that dog will be retired"
Yo,man that's what the whole symp mentality is. You trynna see her p.o.v.
Homie what you're trynna tell me is that they "grow out of it"? :confused:
Dudes that say that are prolly getting creeped on as we speak.Woman need to be worked on constantly and they way you keep her hooked is by doing nothing and looking for other bicthes.
Cuz if not you'll put the game in her hands and she'll try to take ova your role.
The man's role.
The dominant one.
There are things that are female stuff(dating,relationship,family stuff,etc) that you should encourage her to take over but the rest is all you and you must give her that "female" time to keep her .
Sometimes you should hold your hoe.You would be gay if you didn't have some affection for any woman so there goes that i'm a cold-hearted bastard theory :D
But that takes time You do that after a while.
I agree with you that men that don't respect women will only get a ignorant bicth an she'll give him that attitude right back after a while.So yeah you should respect them but c'mon now..guys that do are very few and scarce almost all of them "playerz" even women will tell you that.
You look at porn,technically you disrespecting women by objectifying her.Very few men are consitent with that "Women should be respected attitude".
All men look at porn,go to strip clubs,and lust for a woman soley ova her body.
How many of us have dumped a completley nice,sweet,girl just cuz she ain't give us none?
Of course there are a few men out there that might say that they don't do that stuff and they'll get married and ahve kids ans whatver.
But i say just say that they are "confused." :D
Tha Realnezz 06-11-2004, 03:32 PM "Sometimes you should hold your hoe.You would be gay if you didn't have some affection for any woman so there goes that i'm a cold-hearted bastard theory :D
Also,those are things you do when you wanna keep your hoe.
That right there is square shit,you are no longer a "playa" when you do that.Breaking her down emotionally and mentally isn't needed when you have your shit together.
If your real life is buzzing,she won't leave you ..trust me.You'd have to completley ignore her or tell her to go away.
Keeping her locked up is for relationships and for sucka'z.
Wreckin Eyez 06-11-2004, 07:19 PM You look at porn,technically you disrespecting women by objectifying her.Very few men are consitent with that "Women should be respected attitude".
All men look at porn,go to strip clubs,and lust for a woman soley ova her body.
How many of us have dumped a completley nice,sweet,girl just cuz she ain't give us none?
Of course there are a few men out there that might say that they don't do that stuff and they'll get married and have kids and whatever.
^^I don't look at porn, I'd rather go out and get some real pussy. Now even though I don't look at porn and I respect women doesn't mean I'm looking for a wife and kids. I don't ever want kids and don't plan on getting married anytime soon. My girl agrees with me on this, so it's all good. I have dumped one girl because she wouldn't do shit, and that was back in 8th grade. I have had a few girls that I havn't slept with, and I didn't leave them just because of it. Actually my current girl is still a virgin. Although I do plan on breaking that, I would never pressure her into it. There is a reason why my girl is intimidated by how many girls I've been with. I don't think she'd be that intimidated if I had only been with 20 or 25 people. Just respect your girls and you will get alot more pussy than if you dogged them all.
THE TRUTH 06-11-2004, 09:12 PM I'm personally starting to think that some of y'all need a class: Woman 101. Y'all seem not to understand. I respect women by respecting myself. I dont settle for anything, therefore that woman knows she can't be lax; and equally, she knows I can't treat her lax either. The problem is never the amount of women you can get (one goes one comes) it's how to recognize one that deserves your attention and is more than pussy to you. Some women dont like how I act -- not a thug, not a playah, none of the cliche -- but I'm straight wit em. Call that whatever the fuck you call it; but i'm starting to get the impression that most of y'all aint seeing the big picture.
IllAssasin 06-12-2004, 07:27 AM let me repeat myself in a past reply
I respect my babies momma and thats it my respect is earned and she been down from tha jump. i dont just walk around shittin on bitches but i aint gonna crawl through tha mud for em niether.
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The DunceCap 06-12-2004, 09:36 AM ~SMIRK~
It's statements like this that amuse me. It's obvious that life experience is the only true pedagogue. That being the case, one's perspective can only proffer whatever to what that person has witnessed. If your whole ideals are based on a mere sect of individuals, I am sorry to inform you that you are being slightly myopic..
There are some of us who don't bitch up for a female but we don't disrespect 'em either. I'm done doing that shit. I was in the same shoes you're in now, but I've had certain experieces mold my actions. For that, I cannot agree with your afore mentioned declaration..
OWNED
and the whole the "nice guy" thing dont work isnt true its just that different girls like to be approached differently, but has it ever occured to you that there are some guys who actually treat women with the respect they deserve and dont call em "bitch, hoe" etc. or dont like em cuz they got "big titties" and a "phat booty"? i mean cmon how u ever expect to get a girl being an asshole all da time but then a again there the small percentage of females who get excited about being disrespected and those are the ones who usually end up in a body bag (sad but true)...what ever the point is this kid tryin to give advice but has to play spin the bottle with his mom :(
Wreckin Eyez 06-12-2004, 10:39 PM ^^For once I agree with Virt.
Tha Realnezz 06-13-2004, 11:04 PM The fact that you guys are getting riled up about this just proves my point about nice guys putting women on pedestals.
Ya don't put women on pedestals? Then why get pissed and start hurling insults?
I never pointed anyone out. I never told anyone to disrepect women or did I? You guys read something in my posts that touched a nerve and ya refuse to admit that.
It's whatver.
Now answer me this:
If that nice guy shit did work,then how come most guys ain't getting none????
Cuz that shit don't work.
IllAssasin 06-13-2004, 11:15 PM Now answer me this:
If that nice guy shit did work,then how come most guys ain't getting none????
Cuz that shit don't work.
for real though. now Damien has had some life experience so what he has to say is welcome for debate purposes. but for anyone born after 1985 unless you been havin experience wit females since you was in the woom i usually just look over your post.
have a nice day and let me know when ya hit puberty JR.
but to each their own. i know what works for me and it aint sympin. show respect when its earned but again i go back to my last reply before this one.
as spoken by the HitMan
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Cra-Z 06-15-2004, 04:15 PM I love my girl and I tell her.
~Damien~ 06-16-2004, 02:19 AM Now answer me this:
If that nice guy shit did work,then how come most guys ain't getting none????
Cuz that shit don't work.
My bad if I came off a certain way. I didn't mean for it to seem as though I was being overbearing. It's just that I don't necessarily feel too enthused to see certain things said in a generalization. Inductive reasoning will only get you so far..
To answer your question, nice guys are probably lackin' in the pussy department for a number of reasons. Maybe they aren't truly nice; maybe the females they go for aren't used to having a good guy. They only reason I'm sure it works is cuz my boy is finally with a female he can trust and all that other shit and he's planning on stayin' with this female till marriage. This is one of my niggaz. I told him that actin' hard and shit ain't gon' get him the female he needs. I helped mold him and now he has a wifey. Pussy on the constant. It's all on how you maneuver ya' talents..
~SMIRK~
Tha Realnezz 06-16-2004, 11:18 AM Nah i was talking to the other dudes in here.
No prob i see where your coming from when you broke down your whole game plan in that other thread.
I agree somewhat when you say that men spend most their lives thinking about sex and that shit interferes with everything else.
As for that Sympin' question:People...it just doesn't work...lol. We see it everday.95% of the cases ..that just doesn't work.
The symp grabs dates and gf's here and there.The guys who doesn't really care will sweep up it's just the way it is.We can debate why and how and we can debate that all girls are different. But at the end of the day,the numbers don't lie.Most of them are with "jerks" not Nice-guys.
Death Bed 06-22-2004, 04:06 PM I really care about the girls I love..but.fuck them hoez...
Tha Realnezz 08-10-2004, 06:11 PM I'm re-organizing my "Bible",these hoes must understand.
dat nigga D 08-12-2004, 03:33 AM i aint no soft ass nigga and i hold my own, but i aint gone disrespect no female like dat...and if i love her then ima let her know wassup and tell her how i feel. im tired of goin from girl to girl dat shit is gettin played out. ima grown ass man now and im lookin for a girl dat want a real man and not a lil boy.
Yoc Town Norteno 08-12-2004, 06:50 AM ^^^Pfffft!!!
Look mayn ya'll can say whatever, but underneath all that bullshit you just wanna fuck every once in a while...
If u fall for a bitch thats your own dumb ass fault you ol' retarded ass mofucka...
Drop a ball, it bounces... Open your eyes, you see... Simp a bitch, and she'll play you like the dumbass you are...
Lifes a game dog, and it's all about who's playin' and who's gettin' played...
You can type ten paragraphs like TRUTH and you can disagree like some'a'ya'll, but the REALITY of the situation is this: All you got for SURE is yourself, and if you got half a sense as to whats good for you, you won't make yourself weak with a bunch of puppy dog luvy duvy bullshit...
you gone pimp or gimp???
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