If the girl your messing with is The One?
I know not all of the population of males on this board are pussy deprived assholes who bash women and think of them as nothing more then toys just to be played with at their will. I know many of you have met someone who has made your heart overfilled with joy. The girl who made you give up ya pimp/ playa card and get a hubby card. Though it may not have lasted it has happened. I just want to know how do you know that she is the one. Everyone knows that girls get the "cant eat, cant sleep cant breathe unless they talk to that person" kinda thing. But what happens to you...HOW DO YOU KNOW?!?!?!?!:confused:

when a hommie got it bad fo a gurl he starts to get a lil jelous, he calls ya a lil mo often, starts to talkin bout tha future wit ya, and if he wants to introduce ya to his mama then ya know whats up...lol... if he starts bein mo sensitive... them is all signs of a guy startin to fall fo a gurl... hope that was sum-of help to ya...

I've always fully respected women..only after having my heart broken too many times I realized that women fuck around to me I am a very sensitve and funny guy which draws women to me but they need a lil harshness I think or they get boared which iz fucked up anywayz but its' true...by now I can't tell you who the one iz..."I could be an organ doner the way I give up my heart"-Andre 3000

You know it's the one when you tell them you love them and they tell you back and you feel all tingly like nothing else matters in the world.

you jus feel like your at one with them, like thier part of you, you give up time with your mates more often, stop going to the pub as often unless its with them, jus basically want to spend time with them not jus see them for a fuck then leave....ya know

Notwithstanding anything said above; there are many ways to answer this question. To each man (and each woman for that matter) we tap into our feelings in different ways. We express those feelings in dissimilar fashion. We understand our motivations like nobody else. That subjectivity, at least to me, is the basis of knowing if a woman is "the one". When you can peer into the subjectivity of that woman; you're able to tell what she's thinking and when she's thinking it. You know what makes her smile; what makes her mad. You know how to argue with her without losing any of the respect for her. And she knows how to do all those things in return. And you know she knows. Then you know she's "the one". Furthermore; when you can honestly see yourself building a future with a person that exudes her qualities; and you start to measure women, in general, by the yardstick she has created, then you know she is "the one". When women throw themselves at you, and you're able to say with confidence and assurance that you want no parts of them; and your inner-thoughts suggest that it's because of that female in question; then you know she is "the one". To those men who have never experienced meeting a female that prompts those feelings; the answer may be that they spend their time focused on vagina rather than substantial relationships. Vagina comes easy; and good women are hard to find (sorta like what women say about good men).

Dani, don't concern yourself with how men determine if a woman is "the one"; just live your life for you, and you will be "the one" for somebody. The test is subjective; and truth lies in your ability to maintain your subjectivity, even if it offends others. That's a beautiful quality in males and females, and should not be brushed aside like it means nothing.

Sincerely
THE TRUTH

All I read of truth's post was the line about different males tap into our feelings different ways and I think thats the case. In my opinion females overall generally possess the same traits and reactions while males show more differences overall.

Now me...because I am a religous person, they say only GOD knows the one for you and when you find her she'll have a discerning spirit...I go by this because in my mind its the only way you can be with someone marry them and NOT DIVORCE. All this "the one cant sleep" bullshit ppl go about it by guessing and then wonder why they heart is so shattered when they break up.

Aside from that, there is a female I do love, and pretty much everythang pavvo said is how I feel about her even tho I dont like her moms lol. But I mean this the only girl I would eat...oooh I think I went 2 far haha, well anyway, the point is, me personally, I find myself often thinking of her, many things remind me of her, I'm just smart enuff to not go overboard especially since she gotta man now. Males dont possess the traits of showing off our feelings of knowing you're "the one" therefore its hard to detect (if possible at all)...one way to find out, is if you find yourself in a zone, a position, years down the line, months even, where he doesnt do them lil thangs for you no mo he used to, this dont mean he dont love u (or "no more"), but just that maybe it was so routine, but there's things you can do as a woman to bring it back to where it was.

lol at this testerone-deprived thread. [Closed]

If I feel that the female I'm with is a "perfect" compliment to me, I could see her being The One. There aren't many women who understand what it is that I say or who can even catch the way I say certain things. If she compliments me in this fashion, she's worth keeping. If she's worth keeping, she'll meet my parents. If she lasts that long, she has to meet the niggaz who really know me. That way she can see that I haven't always been this...nice. She'll have to decide whether or not she would still want to be with me after she learns how I used to be..

I dunno..


It's whatever..

Diamond all I can say is *Sings* I hope that your the One... Cause if not, you are the Prototype... We'll tip toe to the Sun... and do things.. I know you like.. I think I'm in Looooove Again!! ;) I wanna say Spank You... Spank You, Smelly Muuuch!!

^^^ I love that Song on Andre 3000 CD...

Diamond if you want a serious answer from me... I can give u one.

^^^well give it to me then

^^^well give it to me then

Hmmm... I Love when you talk to me like that!! I will get a Hotel and Key for us later!!^^^ ;)

Ok this was Hell... I Typed all of this for you already and my Computer Froze right as I was Sending it!! SMMFH!! :mad: But this is For you!! I'm gonna Break it down all the way for you to Understand!!

Ok again.. Diamond Baby!! I know you Heard this Before, while a Man was Proposing to his Girl, "I knew you were the One when I First laid Eyes on You".
Blah, now this could be True because he felt you were the One he would Marry!! But, why do you think all those Doubts and thoughts of being Unsure come at the Alter!! This proves that Feelings can be SOOO Strong that it can Confuse or Perhaps Blind a Person's Heart and Spiritual Sight!! Why do you think Alot of Women that get Beat by their Men..they say they are in Love with their man and Have alot of Feelings for them, and they dont wanna Leave them!! Now they know if they sit Down and Pin Point the Pros and Cons in their relationship their Eyes would be Open to figure out they Deserve Better!! Now when you feel Someone is "THE ONE" you dont have any need to Pin point the Pros and Cons in the Relationship... Why, because you are TRULY HAPPY!! Notice I said TRULY HAPPY!! Thats because the ones being mistreated but are so Called in Love ARE NOT TRULY HAPPY.. not if they Open their Eyes and Follow whats Really Right for them!! Ok Now for your Answer.. Calling Somone THE ONE is only YOUR PREDICTION!! PREDICTIONS are never 100% Correct or Accurate in any kind of Way!! It's like your Gambling and Hoping with Love and Strong Feelings that THIS IS IT!! You may feel like This is it Now!! He even may feel like This is it!! But your Man has his Own feelings too that can CHANGE through TIME!! How can you Predict something for Another Person that has His Own Feelings and Emotions too unless you can Control his Own Will... Imagine 35 years with one Person.. Now that is Almost 2 times as Long as we Lived on this Earth!! There is NO WAY in HELL you can "PREDICT" that yall Marriage "IS" going to Last that Long or Even forever and be 100% correct!! PREDICTING and Something that IS GONNA HAPPEN are two different things.. You can Only Hope that the Relationship Wont take a Downfall in the Future!! Now dont get me wrong Predictions CAN be Right.. but your only Juggling what Meant to be... it will Never be 100% unless its Fate.. A Plan by God.. You can Predict to Win a Lotto Ticket.. and be Right, but you can also Be wrong.. So remember Feelings can always Change through Time.. Never ever say it Cant.. Cause it Can.. and Calling Someone THE ONE is only a Prediction that you use Based off of Strooong Feelings and Love and Emotions.. but Predictions arent Based off Accuracy!! You Understand.. :)

AND I PREDICT YOU AND I HAVE A FUTURE TOGETHER!! :kiss:

If the girl your messing with is The One?
I know not all of the population of males on this board are pussy deprived assholes who bash women and think of them as nothing more then toys just to be played with at their will. I know many of you have met someone who has made your heart overfilled with joy. The girl who made you give up ya pimp/ playa card and get a hubby card. Though it may not have lasted it has happened. I just want to know how do you know that she is the one. Everyone knows that girls get the "cant eat, cant sleep cant breathe unless they talk to that person" kinda thing. But what happens to you...HOW DO YOU KNOW?!?!?!?!:confused:

^^^^ You cant know the Future.. its Impossible to KNOW!! Only Time can tell!! Males that put down their Pimp/playa Card and get serious is a Decision for themselves... No Girl can Change them.. Only he can change hisself.. His feelings may help allow a Change.. Because he may feel that she is it from all the Qualities he feels fit from her, and this isnt the Type of Girl he wants to Hurt!! This maybe the One he Wants to Marry!! So a Females Qualities, Beauty and personality can cause a Man to "Fall" into that State of Mind feeling like She is the One!! And I explained a few threads up Why you Cant know for SURE if He or She is THE ONE.

So there... Now your questions should be fully Answered!! :)

*reads* thank you rellik...i have a few more questions...lemme know when ur gonna be on aim ok?

The way you know if she makes you smile all the time, even if u are just talking to her on the phone.

^Thats how u know she's the one.

plain and simple when you start thinkin bout the chick everyday second minute.......
and feel like theres nothin you wanna do without her................
my advice DONT DO IT...........NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO