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.LadyMarmalade.
07-06-2004, 05:48 PM
Topic:Okay, lets say you were in a half relationship with a girl, and you've been having sex shortly after you met her. Then she realises some things and sais she doesnt want to have sex anymore,(with anyone) or just rejects you when you try because you clearly dont get the point when she sais no.

Question: 1) How would you feel if you were the male in this situation?
a)If you would accept this, why would you do that?
b)If you wouldnt accept this, why wouldnt you do that?

Feedback is strongly needed
THANX
xxx- 'Confused'

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THE TRUTH
07-06-2004, 06:49 PM
[Answers]

1. Wouldn't feel anything cause I will never be in that position...a woman who starts fuckin me and wants to quit sex altogether -- hell no!

(a) Wouldn't accept it. Female should have thought about her reasoning before she started having sex. You can't revoke sex unless you wanna end a relationship or whatever you have (call me wrong, but i'm not)

(b) Already been answered. A female who does something like that doesn't like nor respect the male. Can't stand for bullshit, won't fall for anything!

Goodbye bitch!
WUNZyPRIMERA

.LadyMarmalade.
07-06-2004, 07:18 PM
Tottaly disagree. So a woman who doesnt want to have sex is disrespecting the male she is with? That is far from the truth, Truth. A woman who stands for her own beliefs and wants has respect for herself, and if that means disadvantages to the man then so be it. The fact that she was having sex at first was at her full will, but once the relationships starts going rocky and she sees test thrown towards her isnt it only right to throw them right back? What makes men so superior to woman, Eugene? And why is it that we, in many men's eyes stand as only sex objects?
The person in the topic of this question is dealing with a man that shares the same beliefs relationship wise as you do. He will not get into a relationship, but he is leading her on to believing that something might indeed happen. Put yourself in that womans position then answer with thought.


*Dont call me a bitch ever again

BusterHymen
07-06-2004, 07:28 PM
if i was the male i'd most likely step on expecially if she didn't explain herself cause i'd feel like she wasn't feelin me anymore because of her actions so i'd vamp

.LadyMarmalade.
07-06-2004, 07:34 PM
It's been explained. He's (and everybody else around her) is under the impression that she is a sex addict. And they have been fallin apart due to many things, its only seemed right. Cant you men understand that?

BusterHymen
07-06-2004, 07:41 PM
lmao well if she is a sex addict she probably instigated the sex and i would supposedly be her man so not having sex with me would be stupid and would seem to be just a form of punishment from a mad female so she would get dumped no doubt

.LadyMarmalade.
07-06-2004, 07:47 PM
Oh Okay.......

Wreckin Eyez
07-06-2004, 08:08 PM
1) I don't even know how I'd feel. I'll get back to you if it ever happens.
a)I would accept it.....

























...and most likely dump her ass. (I never said I'd stay with her, I just said I'd accept it.)

THE TRUTH
07-06-2004, 08:12 PM
Danijela wrote all that after my response only for me not to care....smh

.LadyMarmalade.
07-06-2004, 08:19 PM
lol

You'll never know.........

Mischieveus
07-07-2004, 02:22 AM
I think sex is the ultimate way to express your love to another person. It's like thanking them for all the emotional pleasure they've given you, so in return you make them physically feel good. If the female it giving it away in the beginning of the relationship, then this is what the relationship is now based on. Again, sex is the ultimate reward for both parties. If you have sex and one party takes it away, then what's left? You didn't give anytime before the sex to build a foundation, so there isn't anything to base your relationship on.

Plus, that shit would be just plain mean. That's like baking a batch of cookies, giving a kid only one, and then telling that kid he's gotta wait a while to have the rest (I'm baking some sugar cookies right now :) .. I got a sweet tooth)

Beamxcell
07-07-2004, 09:55 AM
ok first of all i would neva b in a "half relationship" as u called it n b havin sex wit her...if it was a "half relationship" i would b gettin ta kno her ratha den jumpin in her pants cuz she mite not b clean if she ready ta jump inta my bed n not really b commited ta me...ya kno??

now fo yo questions...
Question: 1) How would you feel if you were the male in this situation?
a)If you would accept this, why would you do that?
b)If you wouldnt accept this, why wouldnt you do that?

1~i would probably not care to much cuz she already lost most of my respect by jumpin inta my bed so soon
a~i would accept it cuz if i didnt den it would b called rape n i could go ta jail fo it...but if u mean accept in tha manor of still chillin wit her n bein wit her den tha answa is still ya cuz i would still like ta get ta kno her...would prolly fuck anotha gurl on tha low but wouldnt stop gettin ta kno her cuz shell want sex sumtime n wen she do i would jump on it cuz tha pussy would b good afta she went with out fo a while...
b~already been answa'd...
~its on

.LadyMarmalade.
07-07-2004, 04:55 PM
1~i would probably not care to much cuz she already lost most of my respect by jumpin inta my bed so soon

Wow.......

Cra-Z
07-08-2004, 01:22 PM
You just don't have sex that early man, it's that simple.

.LadyMarmalade.
07-08-2004, 02:58 PM
Kinda too late now, dont yah think?

NYC SPITZ
07-08-2004, 03:48 PM
1) Well I would feel like fuck that then , on to the next ho.

a) I would not accept this.

b)I wouldnt accept this because that ho needs to get her shit straight , what the fuck? She doesn't wanna sex me after a few times? haha , physcho bitch!!! :mad: :mad: :mad:

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T1Oracle
07-08-2004, 10:03 PM
The kind of guy who'd want a girl like that, is not going to want to accept no longer having sex. A relationship like that is likely based on sex, and once you remove the sex, then it'll probably be over. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Beamxcell
07-09-2004, 05:55 PM
Wow.......

^^Wow wut, danijela??amazed at sumthin i sed??thawt u knew me betta den ta be surprised at sumthin i sed...o well...
~its on

.LadyMarmalade.
07-09-2004, 10:16 PM
IT aint that, its just nvm

Beamxcell
07-09-2004, 11:07 PM
IT aint that, its just nvm

its jus wut?!!!u cant do dat ta me...all da times uve dun dat befo n den...err u need ta tell me...jus wut??...
~its on

Apollyon
07-10-2004, 07:14 PM
Tottaly disagree. So a woman who doesnt want to have sex is disrespecting the male she is with? That is far from the truth, Truth. A woman who stands for her own beliefs and wants has respect for herself, and if that means disadvantages to the man then so be it. The fact that she was having sex at first was at her full will, but once the relationships starts going rocky and she sees test thrown towards her isnt it only right to throw them right back? What makes men so superior to woman, Eugene? And why is it that we, in many men's eyes stand as only sex objects?
The person in the topic of this question is dealing with a man that shares the same beliefs relationship wise as you do. He will not get into a relationship, but he is leading her on to believing that something might indeed happen. Put yourself in that womans position then answer with thought.
A relationship without sex doesn't make sense...

Take another perspective. What if you started going out with this guy, really liked him, fucked him once, but shortly afterwards, he got bluntly castrated in a mishap with a shotgun? You'd probably break up. No relationship can survive over any length of time without sex, except for a couple of odd cases.

To you it may seem like withdrawing something that's yours to give, but in my opinion, it's like putting a relationship on hold: It's temporary, but annoying as fuck. Or an absence of fuck.

~Damien~
07-12-2004, 08:29 AM
[QUOTE=MissTrezz]Topic:Okay, lets say you were in a half relationship with a girl, and you've been having sex shortly after you met her. Then she realises some things and sais she doesnt want to have sex anymore,(with anyone) or just rejects you when you try because you clearly dont get the point when she sais no.

Question: 1) How would you feel if you were the male in this situation?
a)If you would accept this, why would you do that?
b)If you wouldnt accept this, why wouldnt you do that?
[QUOTE]

1) If this particular female has decided against having sex altogether then that is her decision. The female I would be dealing with will obviously have a good reason for it and who am I to say she shouldn't feel the way she does. Whatever it is I'm sure that a conversation about it can assist but it may not be the solution..

I would accept it for one reason only - I have no choice. I'll be pissed but I have no more say in whether or not she would like to be sexually involved than any other guy would. It's something I'd have to deal with. If a man cannot accept this particular situation, he's just greedy. Don't get me wrong, I'm greedy but I know my limits..

NightMare
07-12-2004, 03:20 PM
I'd respect her wishes but depending on the girl i dont think i'd stay with her becuz relationships could tend to get boring...but i'd understand if she only wanted to have sex on special occusaions thats koo wit me...( make everyday special ) but none period i dont think i could do it.....blue balls hurt.......sex good.....

Tha Realnezz
07-19-2004, 05:18 PM
Nah iŽd tell her to go fuck herself.

What would you think if your man would fuck you one day and then tell you to fuck off the very next day...

.LadyMarmalade.
07-19-2004, 09:09 PM
lol, damien is justifying what I'm trying to say. For the summary of this thread, the man has accepted to go without sex, and ended up dumped by the female later for various different reasons other then sex....

~K!LLA 4tZ~
07-19-2004, 09:15 PM
im confused, you ask the question and get mad about some peoples answers? I take it this is more about a specific couple and not a general question, or you'd have accepted truths point of view and not called him sexist? Weird, if you have your mind made up, then why ask the question to see other responses?

Just asking, dont bitch.

.LadyMarmalade.
07-19-2004, 09:16 PM
To see what it would turn out to be. And by arguing with people (friendly) you learn more about their point of view. THAT is why I did it to truth.

Doc~Ill
07-22-2004, 12:07 PM
ANSWERS
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yea....Id accept it...i mean if she had an appifany or sum shyt and it hits her...or if shes scared of pregnancy.If she was just fucked-up or high or sumthin when ya'll was doin it most of the time...then you try when she was sober...Id understand....hopefully anybody would.I would'nt reject her cuz she didnt wanna have sex...its up to her....If we was into our relationship...."DEEPLY".....i'd say I'm srry for pressurin you.....if it wasn't deep at all....I'd sa y ok.....I mean no hypocritisism to her or N-E-1 else.....I respect women...always have....always will....fuck all who don't........1

Tyke
07-23-2004, 02:52 PM
First, I don't like getting serious whth crazy hos, any chick that screws early and decides to stop for no reason is under my maturity level, if she really haf a valid reason and I cared about her, then I wouldn't leave her, but if she just decided she changed her mind about me I'd be shit scared I wasnt hitten it right, and puss out and and quit callin her.,

BusterHymen
07-24-2004, 04:22 PM
i don't know why queen stopped fuckin the guy anyway smh haha

omicron
08-02-2004, 12:51 AM
id be like yo bietch
get on my dills or were done
if she says fine were done then shes not worth your time
if she says fine then shes worth your time then u pump the shit out of her

The Obscured
08-02-2004, 02:07 AM
were the sense come in that^^

all i gotta say is..people under 18 shouldnt be havin sex..it would cut down on the immature problems..

||MaTriX||
08-02-2004, 02:48 AM
Lol, If she Dosn't Want Sex No more But Still Wants 2 be in a Relationship Thats What "ForePlay" Or "Porn" is for.. Lol

omicron
08-02-2004, 03:11 AM
wouldnt that piss u off though if some girl your seeing was like i dont wanna have sex anymore
id be so mad man, and what kind of a forum is this what kinda girl would actually say that right after she had sex with u....

Metrikz
08-02-2004, 09:23 AM
It means basically that you must have a small dick.


But what Nigglagent said, Yeah, dump that hoe. Bitches come a Dime a Dozen, so if urs ain't puttin out, there is always some trick out there that will. And if you must stay with the bitch "Cause you love her and shit" *Ugh*, then find some shit on the side. We need to get our rocks off lady's. So if you ain't doin it, we gonna find some hoe who will.

Metrikz
08-02-2004, 09:24 AM
were the sense come in that^^

all i gotta say is..people under 18 shouldnt be havin sex..it would cut down on the immature problems..


^^^^^^^^^
~WORD~

CoMpLeXiTy
08-02-2004, 01:23 PM
aint no gurl gonna say ion wanna fuck RIGHT AFTER u fuck and im a lil nigga and got sense enuff to kno dat unless u aint givin it to her right or u gots a lil dick like Metriks said

Im real immature at times but i can be real serious so dat dont mean everybody gottah be 18 cuz some ppl do have sense enuff to be mature u jus see all the young dickwads everywhere actin stupid and actin like 2 year olds but u dont see the young'ns wit sense to be mature when its the actual time to be