Ok. . . There are four people to this: Mischieveus and this girl he's talking to whose name is Amanda, and his really good friend Jimmy and his girlfriend Sherry.

Aight.. So Mischieveus has been talking to Amanda for a while and he really likes her, A LOT.. And she really likes him back. Amanda and Sherry are best friends. Mischieveus was introduced to Amanda through Sherry. Sherry one day tells Mischieveus that her and Amanda have "experimented."

Question: If Amanda and Sherry continued to "experiment" while Sherry and Jimmy were going out and while Amanda and Mischieveus were going out, would it be considered cheating?

I don't think I'd be down with the girls messin' around with each other like that....How'd they feel if (eww god forbid) but hypothetically that was you and Jimmy?...It's not cool, the relationship gotta be exclusive, and that ain't exclusive...If I was either of you I wouldn't be havin' that...Ya you grateful Sherry hooked ya'll up but that doesn't give the girls license to fuck around with each other...just my 2 cents....

How big a question can this be?

People must simply make sure that they follow what their instinct tells them to on first instance. To some men it may seem a good thing; but those women in your hypothetical are absolutely and morally wrong. Committments shouldn't be sought unless exclusivity is to be practiced. Where there is no intention of exclusivity then there is no committed relationship. We discussed cheating before; in another thread some time ago.

The same holds true. To me -- definitely not moral; definitely with somebody else sexually, "experimentation" is one thing, and suckin on another female's box repeatedly is another. M and J should respect themselves and dip, understanding the extend of the female's actions.

Just my insight.

WUN

Yeah, those are both really good insights.. That's exactly how I felt when she told me. They said that had done stuff before, but they wouldn't again.. Thanks for the imput fellas..

Can I get some more guys and some ladies insight as well?