this may seem like a sexist thread and my predictions are the content will become sexist, sorry ladies but I need to vent and this is to all women no matter their age.

all men think they have the best girl in your life because to you, shes the best, shes it all, shes the shit. in reality you may not be her first, sheiit you may not even be acknowledged positivity in her inner circle. she is a backstabber secretly, a gold digger, a thief, and this is real and all women has done this not knowing or not.

women has said this many times: "chivalry is dead" yea it is but women know that you are halfway responsible for this quote. women are not like the old days in the reference of you realized that no matter what, you are still a lady and will be beautiful. I hate seeing these women who eat then throws it back up. I hate seeing prostitutes on the 17th. I hate superficial women with phony breasts and stuff, its disgusting.

I remember when I was in 6th and i'll never forget it, I was with this girl and she was perfect, our relationship was 8 months strong until I went by her house, I saw her with one of the ugliest niggas you ever seen. he looked like he was Baby from the big tymers and I knew this nigga can't fight, I found out she was feelin sorry for him, I had to fuck him up and I had to leave her

discuss if you felt this pain

Yap, yap, yap...you were young
You didn't know what love really was...

Look, I ain't never been in love.
And don't plan on it 'til I start makin good money.

All is Fair in Love and War

Now let's contrast love n war

So-called love is like a trap
Don't "fall in it"...
Find it.

Then you will be able to avoid some of the heart ache n pain

How do you find it without falling? Here's some advice, move slower to the "love" part and don't close your eyes until you know where her heart is. Also, it shouldn't be all "you're the only one" until it makes sense that she might be. I don't me playing the girl either, she should know you two stand. Trust is the foundation of any relationship.

Trust no man (or woman). Look up "love" in the dictionary.
It has nothin to do wit' trust like it or not.
Niggas who think it do don't know what love is.
Don't know the definition of it, nothin about it all...
Zero zilch nada

Even in 6th grade you don't fight over women.lol,it sounds like you're just now seeing hoes for what they truly are.

You just answered your own q.It's cuz their not raised the same.

Even in 6th grade you don't fight over women.lol,it sounds like you're just now seeing hoes for what they truly are.



I guess but I can't fight over a girl who I was with and cheats on me in my own eyes

I never cheat on a girl

Trust no man (or woman). Look up "love" in the dictionary.
It has nothin to do wit' trust like it or not.
Niggas who think it do don't know what love is.
Don't know the definition of it, nothin about it all...
Zero zilch nada
Your crazy, it's all about trust that's why it makes people into fools. They trust too much and can't see the truth because they're blinded by their trust. A literal definatition explains little about the actual way in which things work. You love because you trust, and when you lose that trust, you lose the love.

noun: any object of warm affection or devotion
Example: "The theater was her first love or he has a passion for cock fighting"
noun: a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction
Example: "Their love left them indifferent to their surroundings"
noun: a strong positive emotion of regard and affection
Example: "His love for his work"
noun: a score of zero in tennis or squash
Example: "It was 40 love"
noun: sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people
Example: "His lovemaking disgusted her"
noun: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment
verb: have a great affection or liking for
Example: "I love French food"
verb: be enamored or in love with
Example: "She loves her husband deeply"
verb: get pleasure from
Example: "I love cooking"

^^^definition of love, nowhere in it does it say trust, but if u r inlove with sumone u do need trust, in order for it to work. Without trust, there will be cheating lieing and so on..so nappy babe before u start talking like u kno what love is, expierence it. Aight im out
~1~

I'm glad ya'll can 'define' love, because I know I sure as hell can't.

Your crazy, it's all about trust that's why it makes people into fools. They trust too much and can't see the truth because they're blinded by their trust. A literal definatition explains little about the actual way in which things work. You love because you trust, and when you lose that trust, you lose the love.
^^But there's alot of truth in that.

Nappy...god, every time I see you post I see so much resentment for females.

Nappy's response:
Get out of the basement, it's guys only!

To save the trouble:
Because your male, does not mean your in a little club.

I wasnt defining love myself, i was merely stating that love does need trust to survive, wether the written definition says it does or not.

I agree with you and disagree with you baby girl. Yes to be in love you do need trust. But not trusting someone doesn't cause lies. Lies cause not trusting someone.

Hmm i suppose ur right...But that whole part isnt even what i was focusing on, what i was focusing on is that, in a relationship trust is important, and thats what i was disagreeing with nappy on, so it is true that not trusting someone doesn't cause lies. Lies cause not trusting someone. But that wasnt wat i was beginning on.

"They trust too much and can't see the truth because they're blinded by their trust." - T1Oracle

That's agreein wit' everything I stated earlier.

Like I said..."Trust no man (or woman). Look up "love" in the dictionary.
It has nothin to do wit' trust like it or not." - Nappy

You can have theif in your family, you may not trust 'em but chu love 'em.
See what I mean???

Trust can be so traditional, it's misleadin the masses...

^^See, you still have the wrong idea of a relationship and we're talking about a completely different type of love. In a normal case, yes, trust no one. But when it comes to a relationship there has to be trust. If not it will never work out.

"They trust too much and can't see the truth because they're blinded by their trust." - T1Oracle

That's agreein wit' everything I stated earlier.

Like I said..."Trust no man (or woman). Look up "love" in the dictionary.
It has nothin to do wit' trust like it or not." - Nappy

You can have theif in your family, you may not trust 'em but chu love 'em.
See what I mean???

Trust can be so traditional, it's misleadin the masses...
Do you let the family theif into your home and leave them alone? No. That trust has been broken and thus the relationship is broken. You have to keep a watchful eye on them, you have maintain a high level of scepticism and suspicion of that person. Maybe you will still care what happens to them, but in the end you will be doing more to protect yourself from them than you willl be to show your affection for them or to include them into your life. With no relationship the love dies.

Most of y'all think like most married couples, that's why most married couples get divorced.
Trust has become a tradition...I don't know what chall believe but I know not to put my trust in man (or woman).

Jeremiah 17:5
Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the LORD.

P.S. love is life. It doesn't die, if it does it never was love at all...

Marriages end in divorce because people marry for bastard children, being in the same dead relationship too long, sex, money, convience, social status, to please others, and just about everything other than the love and respect that is necessary for a marriage to work.

Cursed is the one who trusts in man,
who depends on flesh for his strength
and whose heart turns away from the LORD

^^You have to read more from it than just the first line. It's saying cursed is the one who trusts in man enough to stray from the lord. By the way, I wouldn't suggest listening to the bible too much. It's been edited so many times it isn't funny. For instance the King James version. King James had that edited for two reasons. One being political, and the other being so he could have an affair. Oh and yes, it is possible to fall out of love. The love a man feels for his wife is a completely different type than the love the same man feels for his child. The love he feels for his child is unconditional, the love he feels for his wife was gained and can be lost.

Dawg, since you in denial...

Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

And you know what "all" means, every single ounce of trust you have (leaving none in man)...
I know it's hard for you to accept...
It was for me when I was under that traditional way of thinkin...
But it makes more sense when you think about it.

^^Do me a favor and never use anything from the bible and say it makes sense. The bible has been edited so many times and contradicts itself so many times that it no longer makes any sense what so ever. If you can't trust in your fellow man then you will live a life of solitude. That is a pretty sad way to live. I really don't care about your little bible quotes, you can throw them at me all you want. I know all those, I've read 3 different versions of the bible. Tell me something, if the bible makes so much sense, then how is it I'm able to read 3 different versions all saying different things? Do me a favor, save your preaching, I'm not Christian and I refuse to have you hypocrites pushing your religion on me.

2 posts wit' passages and now I'm pushin my beliefs on you...
Like I'm pointin a gun at chor head 'n commandin you to be Christian, ha ha

Be real. "Don't cast your pearls to the swine."

He so sensitive, so sensitive...
Man fault, man up next time nigga

If you never had trust in anyone then who bathed you when you were little? Who potty trained you? Who taught you how to drive? Who piloted your plane while your sitting in coach sleeping? And most important of all, who brought you this book in which you now quote from?

Teachin has nothin do wit' trust...Look "teach" up in the dictionary.
Just like love...Look love up in the dictionary. It has nothin to wit' trust.

I can never go wrong wit' THE GOOD BOOK. That's were my folks learned what they know from. That's what they taught me. If they taught me to trust no man or woman And it's in-line wit' THE WORD...
What chu think I'ma do? Stick to what I know. Why y'all think I ain't worried 'bout most y'all say??? 'Cause I don't trust ya. Trust is the reason why most y'all stressed out right now.

^^Oh so your folks are hypocrits? Anybody who learns anything from the bible 90% of the time is a hypocrit. Baptist, catholics, all hypocrits.

Nah, that ain't my last name.

^^^lol.."that's not my last name"..

Smh... He just proved he's a dumbass. I'm done with him now.

I really didn't wanna do this, but I seen it comin from a mile...
Yo, you havin problems wit' the lil' words.
It's h-y-p-o-c-r-i-t-e.
Who's the dumby now??? You dumb bastard...
Don't use words you can't spell in real life, ha ha aw shit...

oh my...
#1 i personally belive love is whatever you want it to me...... love is tha tthing which ever1 strives for cos at the end of it all we dont want to be alone and we'd like to think theres some1 or somthn perfect for us...

thus , everyone generates there own version of love depending on what they want..

#2 the world is a strange place.. people dont understand how sexist the world is against guys.... no matter the girl.. no matter what you do.. you are always wrong and u can always do more.. they wil never be happy with what they have unless there married...

you can take a girl out everyday.. and walk her home every time..but as soon as she hears all her friends talkin about how there boy friends pick them up from work n shit... they will think to themselves
"oh , i wish my boyfriend could do that once in a while"..

ive been there done that.. they jus keep wanting , wanting and wanting.. i lost weight cos of women

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chick broke my heart once....now..can't take bitches seriously..aint gettin hurt like that again...uff em n chuck em,,, peace

Love is a tricky thing....every time i think I got it figgad out it decides to completely destroy my previous opinion of it....that bein said, I've loved an lost...and had love slip away, i've killed love, i've been loved, i've ignored love...but I still haven't figured it all out...it's confusing, it's painful, it's joyful, it's just...well, Love.

Love Is A Nice Experience... Sometimes... I Feel Dat Love Only Lasts Forever Amongst PPLZ Who Give Themselves No Other Choice But To Love... Like Some Of Da Comments In This Thread State, 'Some' Females Keep Shallow Motives Deep Inside Only To Expose Them When Da Fire Is Hot... I've Had Women Try & Sabotage My Successes As A Lyricist... Da Same Women Who Once Upon A Time Said They 'Loved' My Work, Now Rippin'-Up My Notebooks & Breakin' My CD's... :confused: My Opinion, Dough... Love Is Something Dat Is Never To Be Understood Unless It Relates To Oneself Within... & No Other Emotions/Feelings Are To Destroy Or Hinder Our Own Perception Of How One Should Love His Or Herself... Heartbreak Is Bad, But Once Struck Down Da Only Way To 'Fall' Is Up... If Love Becomes Of Any Importance, It Will Be Genuine From Hands Dealt By Experiences... :cool: Trillz

oh my...
#1 i personally belive love is whatever you want it to me
Since when is anything what you "want it to be"? You live in a fantasy. Mistake the wrong thing for love and you'll get hurt, or worse, abused.

this is titled women who break your heart isn't it.....lmao^










i've recoved

This one thick one, I wanted to hit fucked my world up, no love on the real hust the urge to tap that ass had me sprung, man check I intorduced her to my guys once I realized I had the shyt, turns out these cats got her number called her and set up shop, I call these fool they over there banging the brawd and stealing dvds , this one other cat was good for burglue moves and timing, but check this brawd got the nerve to break up with talkin his dick bigger, when she aint see my dick shit sucked, never got a chance to this bitch had mad ass, thoughnice hips and all, I would of broke it off but instead she got hit up and banged out