Aight.. There's this girl that I absolutely love, but she's having a little "problem." She said that she would tell me eventually and assured it had nothing to do with her ex boyfriend.. Well, she lied.. I'll let yall see for yall-selves.. This is the email she sent to her friend that showed me the email:

hey sara,
omg........i went to school today then had to leave because someone asked me how justin was doin? i wanted to cry then but couldn't. this whole situation has fucked me up big time. i don't know what to do. all i think bout is what's he's doing. he didn't call again last night, so who knows if i'll ever hear from him again. last night when i was on the phone with joe, he asked me if i ever miss justin and i wanted to say yes, but i said, "umm........i don't know, certain things that happen remind me of things him and i used to do together" and that was it. he said he didn't want us getting too serious and me start missing justin or wishing that it was justin i'm talking to when i'm with him. so, i don't know what to do. i'm so depressed about it, it's making my mom worried and i'm not trying to. when you think about it, your'e like who the hell finds the love of your life at 13 and 15? i'm so upset right now, it's like you would be if you ever lost jake! that's how bad it is.
i didn't realize how much i loved him til i saw him with her. he said they aren't dating, but i never know. i feel bad because i'm doing all this to joe and i wanna tell him, but i don't know how and i don't wanna hurt him. last night i asked him what his biggest regrets were, seeing if he would tell me about him and casey. well, he didn't, it was something like he regrets liking the same girl as dave or something. something stupid. that's something you and i did on a regular basis. (lol) besides that i didn't say anything about him and casey, that was all i asked of him.
there so much stuff coming up where i would prolly run into justin, but i'm scared to because if i see him i just wanna be able to walk to him and kiss him..lol....but i can't. like the calvert county fair. i wanna go because i know he'll prolly be there and i could see him and hopefully talk to him. well, i don't i called you back last nite, no one answered. i'll try you later tonite or talk to you on here. Love ya!
anna

After reading this bullshit, I don't know if I still wanna talk to her, for real. This same exact shit happened to my friend once and I don't wanna deal with this, but I love her ass.. Any opinions fellas and/or ladies?

..Wow man, I dont even know what to tell ya..
This is a complicated one..I'll think about it and get to you on AIM..


I got my own girls to deal with :S..

Confront her bout it and then see what happens.

^ Good idea.. Thanks..

Means you're not doing your job if she still misses her old boyfriend...

Don't confront her like "yo I read that email"... Just try to slowly transistion your conversation on what you have read. Say stuff like "You ever miss somebody blah etc.." and then if she lies. Confront her and tell her to let it burn and do some usher moves

Confront her and tell her to let it burn and do some usher moves

*collapses in laughter*

Confront her bout it and then see what happens.

^^Nah you don't want to do that. It'll make it seem like you're spying on her or some shit. I've been through this exact same situation before. My advice would be to break it with her. Obviously she has someone else on her mind other than you. So it's not exactly fair for either of you to be together knowing this. I understand that you love her, but loving her and being with her knowing she loves someone else is only going to cause you more pain and going to cause you to hurt longer. So yeah, the best resolve to this situation would be to break it with her. Pretty much say something like:

Look, *her name here*, I love you deeply, but I know you're still in love with "his name here". It's not fair to either of us to stay together like this, so I think we should break up.

You'll break on good terms and will keep the friendship if you still want it. If you break it yelling at her, you're going to have her and every single one of her friends hating you.

Means you're not doing your job if she still misses her old boyfriend...

Don't confront her like "yo I read that email"... Just try to slowly transistion your conversation on what you have read. Say stuff like "You ever miss somebody blah etc.." and then if she lies. Confront her and tell her to let it burn and do some usher moves


LMAO^^
then..he will no longer have gurl problems..cuz she would of left his ass in confusion..and wondering why he bust out into spontanious usher moves..

Confront her and tell her to let it burn and do some usher moves
^ Lmao. . Halarious!!

Means you're not doing your job if she still misses her old boyfriend...
Yes, I have thought about this. It sucks too because I don't know what more I could do. I'm not exactly in the best of positions right now..

Seriously, I've had bad luck with women like this too many times. I'm seriously going to become a asshole and treat women like shit because for some reason they seem to like that sort of thing..

^^Or completely ignore my advice. Even though I've helped hundreds of people with this kind of shit before and have never been wrong.

^ Oh, no.. Don't get it twisted.. I KNOW you're right.. It's just not what I want to hear, though.. It's really hard to just let go when I've put so much of myself into this.. It's like: I've put so much of myself into this that if I let it all go now, I can't get that part of me back, and part of me will be missing. So there's gonna be that empty feeling.. I'ma slowly let it go.. But I know you're right and your advice is the most valuable.. Thanks dude.

^^Yeah man, I knew it wouldn't be what you wanted to hear. 90% of the time the right thing isn't what the person wants to hear. Trust though, I've been there before. You know, Seinfield actually had some great advice for this. Do it like a bandaid, just rip it right off. Yes it hurts more to do it that way, but it doesn't hurt for near as long. Either way, you're hurting right now man. You will continue hurting until you get rid of the source of the pain. I feel for you man, I really do. I know this shit hurts.

I have returned .....and this thread is homo. [Closed]

is it me or do women now a days have a fascination with guys who's names start with teh letter J.....Jake....Justin....Joe.....J.....Yeah....*shr ugs*

anyways i think it would be best to let her go......i know its cliche as fuck...but....if u love sumone let them go if they come back to u it was ment to be if not it never was.....BLAH....shit, it works...anyways...stay up man... hope everything works out

:eek: "OMG"!!!! Nah.. F*ck That... Misch.

Man its Like this... You are SCREWED,!!!!! Oh Man its Horrible.... I dont think it'll Ever leave you... you are Haunted to Love Her Forever and Miserably... OH MY GOD... THIS IS IT.. YOU ARE F*CKED.. You wont ever be able to let Her go!!!!

There is NO WAY OUT OF THIS!!!!!!

*smh* Sorry dude!! :(


Your DONE FOR!!!

LMAO!!! No let me stop... *seriously*

I have NO IDEA WHAT TO DO.... I think you should CRY or Somethin... :(

Or Better yet get Real Depressed Over it... Because Life's a BITCH and then you DIE!!

J/K again.... fa real.. I really wouldn't know what to do either!!!

I might do what Dim Witt said and do some Usher Moves... and then Grab her... throw her against the Wall and say... YOU STILL LOVE HIM DONT YOU!!! *Shaking Her to Death* DONT YOU!!! YOU LIAR!!! *Slap her a few times* And then when she Confess.. tell Her IM DONE WITH YOUR STANKIN LYIN' ASS!!! GET THE FUCK OUTTA MY HOUSE NOW!!!!


^^^^ That's how you do it... Be a MAN About ya SHIT!! :mad:

Misch....let's be real.........there are only two ways out of this...the way that Sad has so eloquently put it....or you can be real with her.....ask her to be real with you.....the one thing that does need to be shed to light is How Long have u known this chick..... How long have u and this chick been talking.....the best advice is this......take things slow.....let her know that if she has doubts...to letchu know...and for the most part....to be real with you....if you can respect her for the fact that she will be real with you...AND...not trip out when the truth is heard....no matter what the verdict is....you'll become the bigger man.....like Sad says.....sometimes doing the right thing is hard....but it doesn't mean that you don't have to leave that window of opportunity......juss let her know how u feel.......and if you love her enough to give her the time and space she needs to make her decision......than do it......

^ Excellent.. Thank you..

I hade the same shit happen to me....this Chic named Andrea was talking to other motherfuckers and I was fighting everyday.I started to realize....she ain't mean to hurt me....she just wanted freedom....well....she fucked my bestfriend with me in the same house....I almost killed that motherfucker.Kyle was his name.....the only advice I know to give you is to stay with it.....i mean from readin the email you can tell she really likes you....but she just infactuated with this other guy....give it time....and I'm sure you'll prevail homie.....1

Well Misch., whats the News.. did things get better or worse???

What ever happened....... actually whatever happened to Misch...

^ I'm back..

Two of my best friends died back in early October. I did a drop about one of them. His name was Jake and he was my absolute bestest friend. We saw each other everyday and shit. His girlfriend was the other person (my other friend) who died in the same car accident. She was Anna's best friend (the one she wrote that email to). So really what happened is I lost my best friend and she lost her's. Shortly afterwards we got together because she finally realized how important I am to her.

What's disgusting about this is that I don't want the reason that we're together to be over the deaths of my best friends. It's unfortunate because sometimes I really feel that way. We're doing decently right now. There's not much to say.. She seems like the perfect girl, but right now I really feel like I don't need a girl in my life. I have to take control of some other things first before I can really take on any other responcibilities..

^^^Damn kid... sorry about that... good 2 see you back on your feet though... but remember Love keeps a bond stong... and the Power of Love conquers all!!